As women move toward orgasm the parts of the brain responsible for fear, anxiety and emotion relax and lower in activity. I always just wing it. The best way to create time is to slow it down. Have you heard of or experienced this? No pictures of genitals are allowed. The proof that was stated in the article, and what some women say how they have achieved orgasm mentally; but it does not completely convince me.
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To experience a cervical orgasm, you have to stay relaxed and prolong your sexual encounters. Playing out a particularly hot scenario in your mind is the fastest and most effective way to rid your head of all the mental bullshit and get your brain ready for the task at hand. His book has wisdom, power and dignity. Ever do really weird shit to get off and then 5 seconds after you feel dirty and ashamed of what you just did?
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For instance, "I love when you move your tongue like that" or "Your body feels amazing on top of mine. Wisdom Publications, ; second rev. Not a good technique for avoiding anxiety. I think that women do need to feel emotionally connected to the person to reach an orgasm, and what I think that means is that they have a sexual and a least a conversation or two of attraction to make the woman feel safe, which is most important in regards to the partner. Studying the sexual effects of a menopause drug, she first became aware of the prejudice against the scientific study of sexuality in the US. Similarly, a luminous, cognitive nature exists throughout the mind, no matter how dark, heavy, and dumb it might be at times.